Going ahead and wanting to over come obstetrical is normal so when times are difficult the simplest thing to accomplish would be to aim hands specially when you are let down or disappointing,

You wanted to – and the irony is that the word that is used for people who behave like that are the people who are trying to overcome being that thing – but not by dismantling its semantics but by forcing some imagined notion of victim hood on themselves and feeding it to the world in other words, stop being a little bitch and find the right balance without pointing fingers, its embarrassing for everyone…