What makes you with a person who obviously does not have any respect for your needs or clearly devalues you ?

In which he hesitated and stated a man that is buddy of Vanessa went additionally, and I also stated and who had been the 4th, simply guessing, in which he said oh another man that is a buddy associated with the guy that went with Vanessa. He additionally said once I told him the spouse and I also were divided for 5 months about us apart now, and she has known him for years, he…